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For returning unentitled money paid into her account, public servant is punished!

Contrary to the expectations of many Nigerians that Mrs Husseina Mohammed, a civil servant in kogi state attached to the Teaching Service Commission will be compensated for her honesty in returning the sum of ... ...

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Woman hires her 17 Year Old daughter’s boyfriend to Kill Husband over Insurance Money (PHOTOS)

A newlywed Nigerian woman, 45 year old Uloma Curry-Walker, who was accused of soliciting her firefighter husband’s murder in order to collect $100,000 in insurance money has been convicted of aggravated murder. As God will have it, she wasted her husband’s life for nothing because his ex-wife was still the beneficiary of his Insurance policy.

Acting President Osinbajo replies NASS

The Acting President, Chairing the Federal Executive Council (FEC)in Abuja has replied the Senate which has indicated that it will, henceforth, not attend to anything from the executive unless the EFCC, Mr Magu is removed from office. Below is the statement credited to the Acting President's office:  

As Governor Tanko Almakura fails to pay workers entitlements, he again lies about abuse of traditional rulers by his critiques.

MegaNews can report that after returning from pilgrimage, Governor Tanko Almakura of Nasarawa State has not settled the entitlements of workers in the State. Instead, he adduces an argument that, workers are only 1% of the population.  

Dr Doyin Okupe, former spokesman for President Jonathan Goodluck bids goodbye to the PDP....

Former spokesman for former President Jonathan Goodluck, Doyin Okupe, has resigned from the PDP and party politics for now. Enumerating what appears to be reasons for his seeming frustration with the ongoing polity in the country, he emphasized ...  

OPINIONS

The Number 1 Reason Marriages Fail

We have a great question today from Maureen:

Why do married men of 20 years suddenly leave their wives and immediately start dating other women?

My husband did this to me; he woke up one morning and said, 'I need to move on.'

Three weeks later, while still living in the basement of the family home with me and the kids, he started dating a woman that he's now married to.

Why does this happen? Shouldn't his new wife be very concerned? This leaves me very shaken even three years later, very scared to get involved with any man again. I know you always say don't worry about why. But I need to know or I'm going to go mad.. . .

Here's the deal, Maureen:

Men don't just suddenly leave. A lot of men and a lot of women are poor communicators. A marriage for 20 years had warning signs probably for 10 years.

Marriages don't just end overnight. Nobody just wakes up, turns over and looks at their partner of 20 years and says, "Hey, this isn't working out for me. Last night was great, but you know what, I want to end this marriage today."

When a marriage ends, it's been ending for a long time, except one party always seems to be blind to all the warning signs.

If you're a woman that's had trouble processing your divorce, processing why your marriage ended, these are a couple of things that I'd like you to do to really start to understand.

One of the first things you need to do is really go back in time and take a look at the warning signs. They were there the whole time.

Think about maybe a vacation you took apart.

Think about how often he was working late.

Think about the lack of conversations; think about how you weren't intimate. So many things were going wrong in that relationship. A relationship never just ends; it ends slowly. It ends over time.

Think about the communication between the two of you. Were the talks deep? Did you talk about the relationship? Did you talk about things that would move the relationship forward?

A lot of men -- and a lot of women -- have trouble going deeper into what I would call the intimacy zone.

They tend to accept things the way that they are. They're afraid to voice their opinion; they're afraid to talk about things. And then all of a sudden the relationship seems to end out of nowhere.

This is the hardest thing for most people to understand: Don't take it personally. Yes, you were probably blind to all the warning signs. But then again, you probably chose to be blind because you didn't want to admit, deep down, that the relationship really was not as satisfying as you wanted it to be.

You probably weren't satisfied on so many levels as well. When this happens to a woman, a lot of times they will concentrate on the hurt. They'll concentrate on the why instead of really going deeper and thinking of themselves.

This relationship didn't really work for me. This was a relationship that did not satisfy me.

It's time for you to go inward; it's time to look and really pinpoint the reasons why the relationship ended.

It's never what it appears on the surface. Go deep inward and don't be afraid to move forward. The next relationship you've learned from so many things in this past relationship.

Keep the communication going.

Keep your feelings going.

And don't become so numb.

It's a beautiful thing when this happens, because it's a great life lesson. But there are plenty of amazing men out there that still want to meet you.

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RELIGION

Prophesy Of Jonathan’s Defeat: Buhari’s Victory Has Vindicated Me- Fr Mbaka

Renown Spiritual Director of the Catholic Adoration Ministry, Rev Father Ejike Mbaka, has said that the victory of APC presidential candidate in last weekend’s general elections, General Muhammadu Buhari has finally vindicated him on his New Year prophesy that President Goodluck ...

WORLD NEWS

9/11 Survivor Captured In Iconic Photo Dies Of Cancer

Marcy Borders, a survivor of the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks who was photographed covered in dust after fleeing the World Trade Center, has died of stomach cancer. Borders' family announced her death Tuesday on Facebook. She was diagnosed with stomach cancer last year at the age o...

NIGERIAN NEWS

Jonathan happy Boko Haram hasn’t seized new territory in one week - Premium Times Nigeria

President Goodluck Jonathan on Friday said the Federal Government, the Nigerian Armed Forces and security agencies are working very hard to ensure that the ability of Boko Haram to capture and hold any Nigerian territory is ended very soon. ...